Tuesday, August 28, 2012

Dedication to Prof. Suresh Ramaswamy

Sura, as he was affectionately called, was a gem of BITS Pilani. He was one of the best individuals I knew - able administrator, diplomat, brilliant professor and a decent person to the core. He always had an ear for everyone, be it a student, parent or hostel assistant. Even after changing posts from Chief Warden to Dean, Administration, his was the office to go to, if you wanted your case to be heard. He understood students, was generous with praise and recognised their faults too. I always loved listening to him speak on the dais because he spoke briefly with simple words, yet managed to inspire. 

I'm still trying to believe that one of the pillars of my college life is no more. I knew him first when I was a college kid in first semester, fresh and eager. His was a presence that was always there for me, even if we didn't talk for months. I saw him last on 5th August, 2012 sitting in his home. We talked for almost an hour with his young daughter playing on the carpet.

Many of us remember him with a bicycle tyre in LT, demonstrating how the gyroscope works. That is the role in which I saw him first, a Physics professor. He painstakingly explained waves concepts to me in his office a couple of days before Physics I compre. I was, and still am, a complete novice at Physics, but he gave me the confidence to attempt to solve those problems. 

I next knew him as BITSAA coordinator and he became Sura for me, a relic of his Pilani days. He was genuinely interested and involved in all activities. I see him sitting with Vishrut bhaiya and others discussing the Director's Tea Party menu with Sharath Babu. In second year, I got involved in too many things and no longer had time for BITSAA. When I was given my walking papers, albeit nicely, I remember his canny comment while passing by in the corridor "They booted you out? "

In March 2009, he succeeded Prof. A. V. Kulkarni as Chief Warden. I worked with both of them as part of Election Commission. Sura always made time for the team. We even had meetings sitting on the stairs outside B Dome so that we could get work done after his office hours. This was the first time when the whole responsibility of the elections rested on the Chief Election Commissioner. He did not impose his decisions and let the team do its work. Because of his genuine understanding and assured support, I knew that if my decision was right, I could've told a candidate to do their worst. He came to each audi debate, never intervened, but for me, he was like the wall who would be there if things went awry. 

In March 2010, a group of friends and I were in a bus accident. I lost my sight for a few minutes but was conscious. My vision was wavering between dark and light on the way to the hospital but I managed to dial his number. I thought of him first because I knew he would care about the 8 students in the bus and also, because he had the authority to ensure we were taken care of. He came promptly with the hostel superintendents to the Chicalim Cottage Hospital and stayed with us for the whole day in GMC. He talked to each of our parents on the phone, reassuring them that their wards were being cared for.

I thought my last interaction with him would be in the Director's Tea Party in 2011. I was speaking as a going-out student on the dais where I had compèred three years before. But I ended up attending another Tea Party in 2012. To my surprise, he remembered what I had spoken about a year ago. He wasn't one of the professors who just nodded and smiled. 

Despite all that he had achieved at BITS, Sura was the epitome of humility. I asked him for a recommendation to HBS and GSB in July 2011. He frankly told me that he'd never written a business school reco and to tell him what's the format. When he saw me at the convocation in August 2011, the first words out of his mouth were "Sorry, I didn't get the time to write your recommendation letter". I was astonished. The reco wasn't due till October, it wasn't even on my mind, but he remembered! Out of the three professors I asked, he was the only one who did not ask for a write-up. He was the first one to upload the recommendation letters, despite being pressed for time as the Dean, Administration.
  
As I am writing this, there are many more memories which come tumbling in. I always admired him. Looking back, I realise that he was the only professor I came close to adoring. He was vital to BITS Pilani K. K. Birla Goa Campus. My mind is still refusing reality. I keep thinking what will Sura think when he reads this.
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18 comments:

  1. That should be the attitude in life my friend, Just think that he was very very happy during these 40 years and it was time to make better things from the other side...

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  2. A very insightful post. The greatness of a person is indeed measured by the extent to which he touches numerous hearts and souls with his kind nature. Such people are remembered forever and hence they become immortal.

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  3. I have a lump in my throat right now. He was one of the most rational and down to earth teacher I met. After graduation I came back to BITS after 2 and a half years. He still remembered my name (despite my not having interacted with him so much) and my performance in class (despite it being pretty average). But that's the kind of person he was. Sura.

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  4. Thank you for this. I met Suresh several times on my visits to the Goa campus (and once he drove up to Porvorim to pick up the telescope I wanted to give the Astronomy club there). On another visit he invited our whole family to lunch, a time I remember well because our son insisted on travelling the entire distance sitting in the hatch of our Indica. A gentle, charming man with a lovely sense of humour. I am devastated by this news. My thoughts are with Radhika, their daughter and all of you on and from the Goa campus who knew him.

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  5. Very well put Devika. My interaction with him was limited to the Physics I course but even that short span of time was enough to cast a lasting impression on my mind. One of the very few non-douchebag administrators on campus.

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  6. Although I didn't know Sura, I can understand that he was a genuinely wonderful person and a professor par excellence - both of which are so rare in our world...

    May you and Sura's family have the strength to accept this loss and carry forward his fine memory...

    My deepest condolences.

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  7. Thanks for this article.
    I used to interact with him a lot. He was a very progressive and action-oriented Prof. He respected everyone, no matter who they were or what offence they had committed. He was genuinely concerned about the students.
    I met him just 3 weeks back during convo. He enthusiastically discussed BITS360 and wanted insights on the hopes and fears of BITS aspirants so he could suggest them to the BITS administration.
    It is really sad that he is no more.

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  8. A thorough Gentleman with student's interest upper most on his mind. His administrative ability was well recognised and got him added responsibilities ahead of more experienced folks. His 'can do' attitude served the community well as he always found a proper way to get the right things done. Always cool in a crisis. We have lost a good friend, an effective teacher, and a great soul... Our hearfelt condolences to the family.

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  9. His simplicity, humbleness and penchant for knowledge has undoubtedly left a life long impression on all of us.. RIP Sir. May god give strength to Radhika Madam and his family..

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  10. Iam from 2004 batch of bits goa. I remember this very particular incident in my physics 1 class. Sura sir was our prof. A guy in my class was sleeping and he suddenly woke up. Sir was like " did I disturb you? " he had such a cool attitude. God is very unreasonable

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  11. A very nicely written memoir. Prof. Suresh was a wonderful human being. The university and many of his students will deeply feel this loss.

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  12. Though the first time I recall meeting him was during the BGM 2011 at Gurgaon, his smiling face while receiving the Distinguished Faculty Award is still etched in memory! May God grant peace to the departed soul and strength to his family to bear the loss

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  13. Suresh was a couple of years junior to me and after my Pilani days we had lost touch. When we met again at my batch re-union he came up to me. His face was vaguely familiar.. and then memories came back in a rush.. I was able to place him even before he introduced himself as the Chief Warden and then quipped..."Suku, you can go around and tell everyone that you ragged the Chief Warden of BITS Pilani". Rest in Peace, my friend.

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  14. I had the privilege of working with Sura very closely for 3 years . I belonged to the 2004 batch at BITS - Goa and was a member of the then founded Constitution Making Body . We had chosen him as the Faculty Coordinator of our body as he was a chief warden in pilani . I still remember my first meeting with Sura when I introduced my self as the student coordinator for CMB , the next day he had distributed our physics papers for test 1 and I got a "Zero" in that , I was suppose to meet him after the class for some CMB work , he knew that I got a zero in physics and asked me for my paper . He went through my paper and noticed that I had made calculation mistakes due to which I lost marks he encouraged me to keep on doing the hardwork , in the next test I was able to cover the avg of both the tests .
    He was the best person to be the faculty coordinator for CMB as he had a balanced view on everything , he was neither pro faculty nor pro students .The whole team of CMB had a lot of discussions with him and he was always available even on sundays and holidays .I remember chatting with him online about CMB work during our summer holidays. During all those 4 yrs I had never seen him losing his cool in class or outside of it.
    I met him last october in 2011 when I went for my recos , never got a thought that it would be the last time I would be meeting him . He may have left us but he will surely be there in our memories . RIP Sir ...

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  15. Touching and heartfelt...for me the most wonderful aspect of his personality was how deeply he cared about the problems of the students regardless of their magnitude and how well he connected with each and everyone of us. He always regarded every BITSIAN as a part of his own family. Together, he and Radhika mam were the most approachable and loved professors on campus. I'm sure it would have been the same while he was in Pilani as well. I remember how in my very last semester on campus he helped us organize SPICMACAY which was inactive since a very long time...he cared about things even if they lied outside the scope of his responsibilities...RIP Sir...you will be remembered!

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  16. It's just over a month and the picture of Sura here still makes the loss unreal. The memorial fund has been set up and Sura's students and colleagues have contributed to it generously.

    Radhika mam and her daughter have started their arduous journey without him.

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  17. Happy to note that the SuRa fund has reached its target of $10,000
    http://www.bitsaa.org/donations/fund.asp?id=6325

    Yeah, I understand your feelings. But he's gone :(

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